tear power

We often confuse that power means muscles, but tears can be used as a lot more effective weapon in power games, as says a legendary author.

Remember those scenes when a toddler throws a tantrum to get the chocolate or expensive toy he wants?

Psychologists say that adults also play same games when they want something which they cant get by their own capacity or capability.

Just think about those jokes about girls winning arguments through the language of tears. Or kaikeyee winning throne of ayodhya for bharat using tears. She defeated a king and a rightful owner of the throne.

It’s a very normal human tendency to despise being looked down upon, then, why will some one try to paint himself pitiable? He may have been cursed with pitiable situation, and it may reflect on others by itself, but when someone broadcasts it, better check if it is a power game or not, before being trapped in.

strengthen my own soul

It happens to all of us, does not it? those of us who love unselfishly and expect the same from others.

Those who love to spread a smile and a helping hand to each and everyone.

So many times we are treated with cold stares and irritation. It hurts. We can take one of two paths, first change and become like others. Or the second, which I am trying to take. In this world of pain and betrayal I am trying my level best to not to lose my heart and spirit if my expression of love, respect and trust is misinterpreted. Instead of getting hurt making my heart and soul strong enough to radiate these feelings irrespective of the responses.

Its tough but not impossible, if we lay our love and trust primarily on God then we will see that our heart becomes a source of very deep love. Which stops expecting return, it just glows like a lotus glows in sunlight. That is my ultimate goal in life, and after proceeding a litle, I think I may not reach the end, but the more I walk toward my destination the better person I will become.